02/13/25
02/13/25
What comes to mind when you hear the word change?
For many mid-career women, change often comes in the form of significant life transitions—pivoting to a new role, stepping into leadership positions, launching a business, or making the difficult decision to leave a job that no longer aligns with their values. It could also mean navigating personal changes like children leaving home, caring for aging parents, or reevaluating relationships that once felt steady.
I think it’s important to recognize that at this stage, change is not just about professional growth, but also about redefining what success and fulfillment look like. With each shift, we’re invited to reassess priorities, embrace new challenges, and create a life that feels more aligned and intentional, and as women, that’s critical.
But not all change looks the same. There are four distinct types of change that we’ll likely experience throughout our lifetime. While they can show up individually, they often overlap, influencing multiple areas of our lives at once.
Keep reading to explore the four types of change and discover strategies for navigating each one with confidence, clarity and a little grace.
This type of change is typically unexpected and beyond our control, impacting different aspects of our lives — whether it’s our careers, personal relationships, or business. These shifts can be challenging because we’re forced to adapt to new situations that disrupt our routines and sense of stability.
Examples of Change That Happens To Us:
1. Career Setbacks
2. Family Responsibilities Shifting:
3. Entrepreneurial Disruptions:
4. Personal Life Transitions:
5. Technology-Driven Changes:
The reality is that, depending on your circumstances, there may be little you can do to prevent these changes. However, recognizing that this type of change is happening to you can help reframe your response and guide your next steps more strategically.
This type of change can become a powerful catalyst for personal growth by pushing you beyond your comfort zone and encouraging you to stretch your limits. It challenges your existing beliefs and assumptions, often revealing strengths and resilience you didn’t realize you had, helping you discover new facets of yourself and unlock your potential to navigate and thrive through change.
This type of change occurs on a broader scale, impacting our communities, industries, nations, or even the entire world. It may not always directly target our lives, but it can still influence our personal circumstances, careers, families, and relationships in profound ways.
Consider the recent COVID-19 pandemic. It completely reshaped how we live and work—affecting everything from our approach to remote work and business operations to how we socialize, travel, and access healthcare.
As entrepreneurs, you might have been forced to pivot your business model overnight, transitioning to virtual services or finding new ways to connect with clients. Similarly, many mid-career professionals suddenly had to navigate the challenges of homeschooling their children while maintaining productivity in their own roles.
While these changes can be overwhelming, they also provide opportunities for personal growth and stronger relationships. The pandemic, for example, taught many of us to be more adaptable and resilient, fostering deeper empathy for those around us.
Ultimately, facing large-scale changes alongside others can create a sense of shared purpose and collective strength. Whether it's supporting a friend through a career transition or collaborating with peers to adapt your business to new realities, weathering these changes together can deepen your bonds and build lasting connections.
Examples of Change That Happens Around Us:
1. Global Events Impacting Work and Business:
2. Social Movements and Cultural Shifts:
3. Technological Advancements:
4. Political or Regulatory Changes:
5. Community or Local Transformations:
In each of these situations, large-scale changes happening around us require us to adapt in ways that may initially feel uncomfortable. However, navigating these shifts with those around us can lead to stronger networks, innovative solutions, and more resilient communities.
This type of change occurs on a broader scale, impacting our communities, industries, nations, or even the entire world. It may not always directly target our lives, but it can still influence our personal circumstances, careers, families, and relationships in profound ways.
Consider the recent COVID-19 pandemic. It completely reshaped how we live and work—affecting everything from our approach to remote work and business operations to how we socialize, travel, and access healthcare.
As entrepreneurs, you might have been forced to pivot your business model overnight, transitioning to virtual services or finding new ways to connect with clients. Similarly, many mid-career professionals suddenly had to navigate the challenges of homeschooling their children while maintaining productivity in their own roles.
While these changes can be overwhelming, they also provide opportunities for personal growth and stronger relationships. The pandemic, for example, taught many of us to be more adaptable and resilient, fostering deeper empathy for those around us.
Ultimately, facing large-scale changes alongside others can create a sense of shared purpose and collective strength. Whether it's supporting a friend through a career transition or collaborating with peers to adapt your business to new realities, weathering these changes together can deepen your bonds and build lasting connections.
Examples of Change That Happens Around Us:
1. Global Events Impacting Work and Business:
2. Social Movements and Cultural Shifts:
3. Technological Advancements:
4. Political or Regulatory Changes:
5. Community or Local Transformations:
In each of these situations, large-scale changes happening around us require us to adapt in ways that may initially feel uncomfortable. However, navigating these shifts with those around us can lead to stronger networks, innovative solutions, and more resilient communities.
This type of change affects who we are at our core—shifting our approach, values, mindset and overall outlook on life. It can manifest physically, emotionally, mentally, or even spiritually, and often has the deepest and most lasting impact. Unlike external changes, internal transformations are where we hold the most power, because we have the ability to influence how we respond and shape the trajectory of our personal growth.
These changes can be triggered by external events or arise from a desire for personal development. For instance, a career setback might initially lead to self-doubt, but over time, it could also inspire a stronger sense of self-awareness and purpose. Similarly, experiencing burnout may push you to reevaluate your work-life balance and set healthier boundaries.
But not all internal changes are positive at first glance. Negative experiences, such as betrayal by a trusted colleague or the rejection of a business proposal, can leave emotional scars, making you more guarded or hesitant to take risks in the future. It’s important to recognize these shifts early, as unchecked negative emotions can shape our beliefs and limit our potential.
The good news is that, with this type of change, we have the power to influence the outcome. By becoming more intentional about how we process setbacks, we can turn difficult experiences into catalysts for growth. For example, navigating a personal loss might strengthen your resilience and empathy, making you a more compassionate leader. Or, deciding to prioritize self-care after years of putting everyone else first can transform your overall well-being and productivity.
Ultimately, change within us is about embracing the journey of self-discovery, using each experience—positive or negative—to build confidence, adaptability, and emotional intelligence. These skills don’t just help us navigate the present; they equip us to approach future changes with a sense of empowerment and clarity.
Examples of Change That Happens Within Us:
1. Shifting Priorities in Mid-Career:
2. Developing Emotional Resilience:
3. Strengthening Personal Boundaries:
4. Transforming Limiting Beliefs:
5. Gaining Perspective through Personal Loss:
6. Embracing a New Sense of Purpose:
In each of these examples, change happens within—altering your mindset, beliefs, and approach to life. While these transformations can be triggered by external events, the real impact comes from how you choose to respond and grow through them.
This type of change is deliberate and expected, arising from our own desire to improve our lives. It involves taking proactive steps—whether big or small—that align with our values and goals. The key benefit is that it’s fully within our control; we set the pace, define the outcome, and determine how we navigate the journey. While intentional change requires discipline and consistency, it often leads to the most rewarding transformations.
For example, if you’re mid-career and looking to develop your leadership skills, you might actively seek out a mentorship program, enroll in executive coaching, or pursue a professional certification. This conscious decision positions you to grow and evolve, opening up new career opportunities and preparing you for greater leadership roles.
Or, if you’re a business owner looking to scale, you might initiate change by restructuring your business model or hiring new team members to delegate day-to-day operations. This could involve learning new skills, embracing a different leadership style, or even moving into a more strategic role within your organization. Although this change is planned, it still pushes you out of your comfort zone and offers the chance to explore new aspects of your professional identity.
Examples of Change We Initiate:
1. Pursuing New Education or Skills:
2. Building Healthier Habits:
3. Changing Career Paths:
4. Starting a Passion Project:
5. Adopting New Leadership Approaches:
6. Taking Control of Work-Life Balance:
By initiating change, you expose yourself to new experiences, challenge long-held assumptions, and expand your horizons.
These intentional shifts can cultivate compassion and empathy as you recognize that others are also striving to create positive changes in their own lives. Through the process of creating change for yourself, you not only gain a deeper appreciation for the effort it takes, but also become more understanding of the different journeys others are navigating.
Personal Reflection (15 minutes):
Take a few minutes to reflect individually on your experiences with change.
Consider these questions:
Explore the types of change you’ve identified and how these changes have shaped your current perspective of your life situation and circumstances.
How can you apply the insights from this exploration to approach future change with greater dexterity and confidence?
Remember, you’re worth it!
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